May I have a post please. I’m 34 weeks pregnant, I have a 19 month old also. M…

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May I have a post please.
I’m 34 weeks pregnant, I have a 19 month old also.
My partner & I have been together for 7 years, since I was 15. We always wanted kids. So when our daughter came along, I was so happy. But he really struggled & still does with her. He doesn’t understand she’s still to young to understand what your saying to her & why she doesn’t listen ect. I don’t agree with his ways of “punishment” (his words) especially at her age. He went to leave me last year because he couldn’t cope. (He had also been seeing another woman) we got over this for out daughter & of course I adore him.
Fast forward, I found I was pregnant. He was disappointed. Sadly we got told the baby wouldn’t survive & I’ll end up having a miscarriage. His words to me was “I’m glad your going to lose the baby, because I was going to make you have an abortion. I don’t want another one like our daughter”.
This baby somehow survived & I’m now very close to my induced due date. But now my partner has been acting off for since I was 30 weeks. His temperament with me & our 19 month old. If something is wrong like I need to go hospital for a scan, I’m suffering with swelling or my pain condition is getting worse. He kicks off and refuses to take me. Makes me feel guilty and bad, like I’m messing his day up & I should just get on with it.
I’ve no idea how to handle this or what do to. He never ever used to be like this & it breaks my heart that he is. He still doesn’t want this little baby I’m currently pregnant with & makes it very obvious.
Sorry for such a long post! X
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