My 11 year old had his friend over after school today they were playing upstairs…
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My 11 year old had his friend over after school today they were playing upstairs on xbox for hour or so and my baby was taking a nap 7 months old he is anyway anyway hear my baby scream never heared a baby scream like that and he has a 2 bite marks in her arm she ant got no teeth yet anyway asked my son his friend happened my son said he bit him so sent his friend home I spoke to him he said mum I never bit him it was my friend he said If I told him it was him he would beat me up I think he’s telling the truth not sure what to do I no when there dad gets home he will ask what happened what should I do ?
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Taken his Xbox and tablet off him but feel sort for him
He can just Deny it cant he ? My baby got hurt x
Please add my baby is a boy not sure why I put Girl thanks
At 11 they both know better I would be speaking to the other child’s mother and wouldn’t be allowing him back in the house but I would also take my sons Xbox off him for lying
Um –
Depending who it actually was –
You could phone 101 & ask the police communication centre their take on it. Bullying & physical assult aren’t things to be taken lightly in your own home.
My daughter is 11 .
I always call the family information early years hub if I want advice on stuff.
They’re pretty informative.
I’ve never been a mother to an 11 year old before & sometimes it is best to get all possible options.
This is disgusting behaviour. Especially from an 11 year old that knows better. If you genuinely believe that your son is telling the truth (sounds like he is, also sounds like friend is very controlling) id speak to their parents. Don’t accuse him of anything, just tell them what happened to make them aware. They may completely understand. I wouldn’t punish your son for lying. If hes telling the truth he was obviously scared. Like Sarah said, you may be able to tell from the teeth marks x
I would take the Xbox for a long time and that friend would not be returning. I honesty don’t think it matters which of them hurt the baby your son should be held responsible. He need to know that he is responsible for what his friend do when they are visiting and most importantly he need to protect his brother.
I would be speaking to the parents of that child…hes threatening your child for one and has bitten your baby? Why would you be worried about what to tell your partner? I would be furious, nobody hurts my babies and gets away with it….i would strongly advise your child to not be around that child,he sounds like a bully. I hope your baby boy is ok, bless him. As for telling your partner tell him how it is.
I don’t think you should punish your son he only lied under threat of violence and if someone would bite a baby I can only imagine what he do to someone his own age.point is he told the truth asap.speak to child’s parents and obviously ban him
I don’t think your son should be punished for what that other boy did I’d speak to the parents of the other boy was there any other time that ur baby was hurt by your son to make u think it was him.. I wouldn’t let that go
Woah an 11 year old hurting a baby? They know what’s right and wrong at that age. I’d definitely have a word with the other 11 year olds parents that is unacceptable. I hope your poor baby is ok! X
I would take ur son round to the friends, confront them both and see who says what. Depending on the outcome do what feels best, but I’d definitely not let them see each other anymore. Im sure the friends parents will agree its for the best. Xx
Even if he Denys it to you I’m sure his mum would be able to tell wether he was lying or not and he was still there when it happened he wouldn’t be allowed back in my house atawl x
I would take ur son round to the parents and confront them all to find out the truth no way would that be getting left could have been a lot more serious xx
I would be at the other boys house and tell them it gets sorted now or it will be a police matter! And if take your son along to and see what is said x
I’d speak to the mum. Say you don’t know who as they are both blaming each other but you thought she should know.
At 11 they know better I would inform the friends mother and telling her it is now a police matter and they will get to bottom of it
I would hit the roof if an 11year old done that to my 7 months old baby they should know better at that age
Can you tell by the shape of the teeth marks? 🙁
Go see the friends parents x
go round the child’s house x