My sons father and I was together for 6 years, we broke up when my son was 8 mon…
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My sons father and I was together for 6 years, we broke up when my son was 8 month old. A few weeks later he got a girlfriend (I wasn’t bothered) son met his girlfriend a year later. Been with my boyfriend just under 2 years and he is very good with my son, my son gets excited to see him and they always play together, since my boyfriend has been around a lot more my son has played up very badly!! He’s gone from being an angel to a child I don’t know, he kicks off with me for no reason having a tantrum and has a really bad attitude. He was always okay around his dad and his girlfriend but with me and my boyfriend he won’t let us sit next to eachother and if we are walking down the street he stands in the middle of us, he doesn’t like it even though he likes my boyfriend?? Has any other parents felt this situation of the child maybe playing up for attention or something like that? – his dad & his girlfriend have just had a baby together, my son thought the baby was mine and his dads baby together and after explaining to him a few times the baby isn’t mine it’s his dads & his girlfriends (not saying names due to people may know us) he keeps saying mummy you can’t have a baby I don’t want to share you. – I’m so confused about the way my child has been behaving, I know a child has bad days but he’s never usually like this! Does anyone have any suggestions? I feel like I’m going mad!!! He’s 4 in September. Thanks x
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Maybe he feels like he needs attention because he not getting any from his father because of the baby might feel left out or his father could be telling him to do it maybe try extra mummy n son time or your boyfriend n him time so he feels secure hope he settles soon z
Having a new brother/sister is a big change & it sounds like theres a bit of jelousy there x
Maybe he was ok with only seeing him every so often but if it’s started since your partner has been seeing you more, he might be feeling pushed to the side – I’m not saying you are but he might interpret it that way.
Maybe he thinks because there’s a new baby from his dad that you and ur partner are going to now have a new baby and feels a little threatened xx