Okay, so I found out I was pregnant on the 24th June, my partner was horrid to b…

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Okay, so I found out I was pregnant on the 24th June, my partner was horrid to begin with but finally came round to the idea and supported me and eventually was happy about it, I found out I miscarried on 7th July, I was so upset and my partner claims he was too, anyway when I spoke to him about trying again he seemed okay with it and said ‘we’ll see’ fast forward a week later and he’s saying no he doesn’t want kids and if we do it should be planned this time and we should at least be engaged and not for another 5 years!! Could of punched him! He asked if I was highly fertile after a miscarriage and I told him yes, he went out and bought a pack of 20 condoms which I wasn’t happy about as he had previously seemed okay with us trying again, so the next day after the condom purchase, we had sex twice using a condom, however, we’ve had sex several times (sometimes twice a night) with no condom! He literally bought a pack of 20 and we’ve used 2 in 1 night! He tells me he doesn’t want kids but persists to ‘finish’ (sorry for the tmi) in me!! He knows exactly what this could result in, same as he knew I was ovulating when I got pregnant because I told him, he’s not stupid he knows what he’s doing but is adamant no babies and he knows 100% I wouldn’t have a termination as I told him straight last time that no words or actions could persuade me to have an abortion, so he leaves me and I’ll do it on my own or he stays and we can be a family, he decided to stay and was genuinely happy after the initial shock , please no bashing as I really do want a baby but it’s him that doesn’t yet still carries on doing what he’s doing in me! Can I have some advice or something lol 😂 anyone else’s partner done this?
Sorry for the long post and thanks for reading
Tia x
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