Please can I have a post? Hey guys, I’m sorry this is a long one so bear with …
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Please can I have a post?
Hey guys, I’m sorry this is a long one so bear with me please.
Okay. I’m 17, 18 in 2 weeks. I have a boyfriend that’s 12 years old than me. And he’s a good man. My mother and step father and me have known him for 3 years and we have been together 4 months. He has been married and got kids of his own. He has his own home, his own car and works 2 jobs. I have a 2 year old. Yes I’m 17, I was young still am. But I work full time. Claim no benefits and pay my way at home. Sounds great yeah? The problem is my mum. She is very controlling. She treats me like a child still but only when it’s suits her. She doesn’t let him stop. She doesn’t even let us in the same room alone and ever since we have been together my mum has been completely off with me. And when you know they don’t like something you know don’t you lol. My mum and my relationship has never been great as she treats me like crap, I’m a slave basically. We have a family business and she leaves me to run it for her while she goes out over night but when it comes to me doing something ” I’m only 17 “.. it’s not just about him sleeping with me. It’s about when he buys me gifts. ” he only buys you that because you can’t afford it and he feels sorry for you ” I’m constantly walking one eggshells not wanting to say anything to her.. but yet I respect my mother so much, I’m under her roof of course. But there’s so much control it’s unreal. I know the best thing to do is move out. But it’s too soon with my boyfriend and I can’t afford my own place not when I have child care and everything to pay for when I’m working. I really don’t know what to do. I’ve tried sitting down and talking to her. But it’s ends up in me being kicked out and going back a couple of days later, forgiving my mum because she knows what buttons to press and how to kick my further and further down into the ground. Any advice.. no bashing please. I love my mom I really do. But I don’t think I can be around her anymore
Thank you x
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