Please can I have a private post. I’ve been seeing this guy for a good few month…

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Please can I have a private post.
I’ve been seeing this guy for a good few months now, he has children from a past relationship and I have children from a past relationship my children are not allowed to see their own dad (it was a domestic violent relationship) This guy has said to me that he never wants my children to call him dad, he’s not met my kids yet., his own kids will always call him dad but he never wants mine to, which I completely understand. He said my kids will never be treated any different to his kids they will all be treated the same it’s just the dad thing. Well I was brought up from the age of about 3 by my step dad, I had nothing to do with my real dad and even when I did have contact with my real dad I didn’t like it, I hated going to his house, anyway from about the of 7 I made a decision that my step dad should be called dad by me because he was my dad, obviously not biological but he was my dad. I chose that out of respect he was the man who brought me up, cared for me, cuddled me, wiped my tears when I was sad, provided for me, and he was a much better dad than that sperm donor! Well I maybe looking way far ahead but what if my children decide just like I did that they want to call him dad in time ? Am I looking a bit too far into it? My kids are 4 and under.
When this guy said it to me, I didn’t know what to say because it took me a little bit by shock 😕 any advice welcome, I’m feeling a it confused
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