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Please can I have a private post on your private chat site please?

I’m heartbroken 💔
I’ve just found out I’m pregnant.. I’m still in the early stages, but need some advice and need to know if people that don’t know me or him think I’m being selfish or if i have a right to want what I want.

So me and my new boyfriend have been getting on great, we’ve been together a couple of months weve met each others families, hes met my daughter (she’s 4 nearly 5) and I found out on Thursday I was pregnant. I told him as soon as i found out, he at first said he’d support me in what ever decision I make and that he won’t walk away from me, we spent the weekend together, me, him and my daughter (already has a great bond with him) and it was one of the best weekends we’ve had together ( or so I thought) Sunday he goes home and all of a sudden I get a text message from him saying in not so many words that he doesn’t want our baby, he feels like I’ve made the decision by myself (even though he told me it was my choice and he would support me no matter what) I realise and know that this has happened very quickly into the relationship. I feel like he’s giving me an ultimatum of him or our baby. And I feel hurt and lied to as he’s now going back on his word, and I now feel like he was only saying what he did because he thought I’d want an abortion too. He’s saying he feels like I’ve trapped him into having a baby he doesn’t want. I’ve explained to him that I fell pregnant at 16 after being raped and I tried to go through with an abortion but I just couldn’t do it, even in the worst circumstances. (I ended up miscarrying) I know I wouldn’t be able to go through with it this time either because I actually want our baby and I just know i havent got it in me to just have an abortion. Am I being selfish in telling him I’m keeping this baby, even though he has made it clear he doesn’t want our baby. I’ve explained to him that it wouldn’t have to change our living situations (we still live at our own places) and that he wouldn’t need to financially support me and my daughter, thinking that this might be scaring him too along with the thought of having a baby. Does he have the right to tell me (not ask) to get an abortion, and expect me to go through with it just because it’s what HE wants even though he hasn’t actually said “I want you to have an abortion” he just says it’s too soon for us, and that he thought we were happy as we were but obviously not etc. My head is all over the place and I really don’t want to loose him, but I also don’t want to kill our baby. Please help me.
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