Please could I have some advice and private please.. I had my daughter at 18 he…

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Please could I have some advice and private please..

I had my daughter at 18 her dad left when she was 4 months..I struggled in the early months but I pulled myself up and became the best mum I possibly could be..I wanted to make sure that my daughter didn’t struggle like me. I worked hard and made sure she had the best I could give..holidays,private tutoring to insure she didn’t become like me..she excelled in sports and got a place in a top college and I’m so proud of her..obviously I gave my life to make sure she was on the right track..not letting her hang round streets in her teens (maybe too strict at times). My mum and dad have always spoilt her as they felt sorry for her not having a dad.. buying her latest laptops etc..even when I said no.. its got to the point in the last few years they have gone above me. I believe my daughter should not be handed everything and needs to learn the value of money etc.. since my daughter has been to boarding college she has felt her feet..gone out drinking etc which it’s all part of growing up..until I got called in as she had taken estacy..I was so shocked and hurt and concern..so I told my daughter she couldn’t go out drinking until she was 18 and if she didn’t knuckle down at college they would kick her out.. my parents said I was too strict and all kids do it… I never did. So bow my daughter has chosen to live with my parents wheb she’s home from college..I haven’t seen her in months..I am absolutely gutted…I have had to be mum and dad to her all her life and I’ve always done my best… my parents are now buying her everything she wants..she doesn’t txt me nor do my parents speak…as they said I won’t be happy till my daughter is swinging from a tree…I have a 11 year old son who they haven’t seen in months…He hasn’t done anything wrong and doesn’t understand why grandparents aren’t seeing him… I still pay my daughters phone bill and send money but she only texts me for money.. I love my kids and everyone says she will realise one day… I’ve lived my life to give everything for my kids worked..own my own home etc taken them abroad every year alone…never hit them or cruel…I’m lost and so hurt… please any advice would be great x
Ps while I was out..my daughter came home knowing I wouldn’t be in toget her passport so they can pay for her a holiday and driving lessons… x
My daughter turned round and said she never wanted to be like me and have a child young..and if she was me she would of aborted her at 18 which broke my heart…the girl I look at today isn’t the pleasent girl I brought up…its like I’m he Aunt not a mum 😓 x
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