Please may I have a private post. So I have 3 children 2 of whom still live at…

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Please may I have a private post.

So I have 3 children 2 of whom still live at home (eldest 22). Anyway. My ex husband is supposed to have the other 2 for 2 weeks of the summer holidays as well as his usual twice a month overnight. He will swap weekends to go on holiday. I always agree. Now he’s saying he won’t have them his 2 weeks. It’s not as if he has to actually look after them as they are independent not babies anymore. They are 12 and 16. I understand my 16 year old can make his own mind up and suppose my 12 year old can too. But everytime I try to plan anything he refuses to have them when he’s due…. it makes me angry as he never takes full responsibility for them never has. Believes his loyalty only lies twice a month. It’s pointless going back to a solicitor as the children are older and in all honesty it won’t be long and they will want to go and not go with dad when the mood strikes. (My 16 year old doesn’t even go much) I feel although they are older I still deserve a break from the mumming. You see I suffer with bipolar and look after my kids pretty good if you asked me. Don’t I deserve a break!! I know kids are 24/7 but in a split family life why does the mum get all the shit while dad swans around holidaying when he feels like. I asked him when he was having them for his 2 weeks ( 1 week at the beginning and 1 at the end of the school holidays) and his excuse was work was his priority. Wtf!! Yeah I understand he has to work. But shouldn’t they be his priority. I mean they’ve grown so fast he’s missing out. Anyway I don’t know what to say or do
Advice please mum’s x😊
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