Please may I have a private post? Thanks in advance! I’m nearly 11weeks with …
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Thanks in advance!
I’m nearly 11weeks with my first, it was kinda planned. (We spoke about it) I have told the guy about the baby and he don’t seem that interested. We was best friends for 7 years so it wasn’t a one night stand. Is there anything I can do to try and get him to want to be involved? As I grew up with no mother or father and I wouldn’t wish that on any child! Plus what should I expect throughout my pregnancy? Just a few tips? As I am only 20 and don’t really have family around me.
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Can you comment please?
Took your advice and try to talk to him, well it’s 12.30am he told me to walk to his to talk. Got there knocked about 7 times no answer! So I walked back home and I got a message “come back” he is 4years older than me I thought they grew up and stop acting a ***! Thanks everyone for you advice much appreciated❤
Add on please now he is saying he don’t think he is the dad! I’m in bits! I don’t know what to do xx
Being pregnant is a gift so enjoy it as much you can . Not all days are going to be great with a few mood swings and sickness but just know you will have your baby soon in your arms. And your never alone it might seem scary and worrying for you right now but you will be ok. Hope you and your other half come to a meeting point where you both can open up to eachother and speak how you both feel.. good luck and just know you will be a great mummy . None of us are perfect but as parents we do our best.x
Firstly congratulations hun. Im sure the father will perk up abit when it comes to scans. My other half wasnt interested as its harder for men to build an attachment as such before baby arrives so try not to worry too much at the moment. Its early days and it probably hasnt sunk in for him yet. Best advice for throughout your pregnancy is to remember to trust your instincts and how your body feels. If something doesnt feel right to you, get checked. Its always beter safe than sorry. Also, if you ask pages like this for help, be prepared for the mum police to possibly attack. Most of the mums are very helpful and supportive but there is always one or two that spoil things. Wish you luck and a happy pregnacy love. Its a gift like no other and well worth the good and bad days xxx
Your very early give him time to come around. Guys take a lot longer then us girls.
And I’m not gonna sprinkle it with nice things because every pregnancy is different, you’ll either love it and embrace or hate it and have problem after problem not meaning anything serious but just like mood swings, back pain, sore feet, uncomfortable, and everything like that lol some days you could hate it other days you could love it.
I had an amazing first half no sickness, no pain or anything. I’m now 36 weeks and hating life I’m sore, uncomfortable and just over it 😂 but everyone’s different
You sound very sensible and already acting like a mother, your baby is lucky to have you 👍 I’m sorry you grew up without your parents, I can understand why you want your baby to have two loving parents but as the child of a single mother I can promise you that one is enough when they’ve got the right attitude and the child’s best interests at heart ♥ Hopefully the dad’s just scared, which is natural, he’s dealing with it in completely the wrong way but don’t worry about it for now, try to get some communication going with him and build it up again, tell him your worries calmly and hopefully he’ll come round. If he doesn’t, I can assure you that your baby will be better off without him!
He might be more interested when the scans come etc it might not of sunk in properly that hes going to be a dad talk to him about it if you can 😊 xx
First and foremost you are not alone! There are a lot of people who are or have been in your situation x