Pp I’ve posted something similar before but situation I still going on and befor…
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Pp I’ve posted something similar before but situation I still going on and before I say anything to my brother I just want to know if I’m being unreasonable so my mom needs full time care me my brother and my sister are doing it my sister works full time from 4am till 2pm she can’t change her hours she’s already asked my brother had a heart attack 2 years ago and there’s me I’m a stay at home mom 2 children and I’m 21 weeks pregnant so my sister leave for work at 3.45 am my brother goes down at half 4 in the morning does what needs to be done and then I take over from 8.30 untill 2.30pm his wife is ringing me p saying how he can’t keep doing the early as it’s killing him it’s to much. Me and my sister see it as ones he’s done the 4 hours 4 days a week cuz I do one day a week early he gets all day then to do what he pleases sleep eat time to self etc but as she’s ringing me saying it’s to much I feel awfully and kinds like she wants me to do something??? I really can’t do the early with 2 kids they need me in the morning and plus if I did I would have to care for my mom all day because if I did the early they would not take over. Am I really being unreasonable or asking for to much? Xx
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I think it’s time you got some outside help. You can’t keep this up for long especially with a new born on the way. Speak to social services and see what is available in your area. I work in a independent living unit where we have carers 24/7. I know people worry about using other people to care for their families but sometimes it can do more harm to not get the right care for your mum and for the rest of the family. Look at your options. X
Not unreasonable at all. They need to realise u have to kids and pregnant. U do your part so don’t see why he can’t just for 4 days