Pp please, apologies for the length of this…. So I’ve been with my partner a total of 5 years.. one year apart and recently got back together earlier this year. He claims he loves me and our child and would do anything for us but… he’s so secretive I’ve found out alot of things about him, lying about taking drugs on a few occasions (while we where apart).. inviting a girl he was previously sleeping with to his party where I, my family and our child was..i am so open and public with our relationship on social media and he is the opposite judging by his fb you’d think he was single… he’s got two passwords on his phone and has it glued to him 24/7 will not allow me near it as “it’s his and that’s it” I’ve got my own place and he has been asked to move in but point blank refused? He provides nothing for me or our son besides some money towards day care fees each month. That is it. I need advice on what to do. I feel like I’m being walked over and used. How do I approach him without pissing him off?