PPP- help needed! I’ve been with my partner 3 years , I have children from a pre…
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PPP- help needed! I’ve been with my partner 3 years , I have children from a previous relationship and I’m currently 2 months pregnant with baby no.2 between us. Recently he’s been acting differently and we’ve had sex twice in 5 weeks and normally he wants it every day..At the start of the relationship he cheated on me so to help build up my trust in him again he allowed me to be the passcode to his phone , fb , twitter and email but I hardly ever check anything because but the times I have checked there has been absolutely nothing to hide, anyway I’ve had a gut feeling something is up with him acting differently so I checked his phone just to reassure myself but in his history he’s been searching “genital warts symptoms” “do I have genital warts” “treatment for genital warts”…That was Tuesday night last week, I was so shocked because it means it’s likely he’s cheated on me and maybe passed something on to me or he’s cheated and I’ve been very lucky not to catch anything, I’ve never ever cheated so it’s definitely not from me. I just don’t know what to do ladies 😢 I took myself for an STI test on Thursday without him knowing and the results should be back early next week , Anyway tonight at the dinner table he told me he was going for a doctors appointment on Thursday after work to see about a dodgy mole but I know this is a lie , it’s to go and get treatment I’m sure of it 😢 do I confront and tell him that I know or just wait for my own results to come in? Bare in mind I’m pregnant 😢😢
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Can you please thank the ladies from me for their replies and I’ll go with the advice of waiting for my results to come back and after his docs appointment, I’ll keep everyone updated xxxx
Problem with gential warts is that they can lay dormant and undetected for ages. Days, months even years so even if he does have them, it doesnt necessary mean his cheated recently xxx
Even if he does have them it doesnt mean he has cheated. They can lay dormant for years. He is probably worried to tell you he suspects he has them as he thinks/knows you will jump to conclusions. I would chat to him about it.
Wait for the results have as much evidence as possible I think it was kind of him to give you those details but I suspect another account and another email maybe just be sure or as sure as possible before you confront him
He could have caught the virus before he even met you. Having genital warts doesn’t mean he’s cheated. If he has an active infection,he shouldn’t be having sex with you because he could pass them on (condoms don’t even fully protect against them because you can have warts on skin that isn’t covered by a condom). Instead of creeping around,trying to find ”evidence” of him cheating,maybe be an adult and tell him what you found. If you checked his phone and he knew,he can hardly have a go at you. But he could also be hiding it because he knew you’d leap immediately to ”he’s cheated!” (which you have)
Go with him to the doctors if he says no just say why incase they confirm what you were looking at on the internet on tuesday see what his response is? Xx
Genital warts can lay dormant for a long time and can pop up whenever…
If he’s got nothing to hide he should tell you.. ask.him how the doctors went.. when he’s back… x
Sorry but if that was me id smash hes heading because thats discusting i hope hes not got that an passed it onto u as thats sick an cruel id have it out with him sod having evidence id not be able to wait i dont get why men cheat ur eigher a slagbag or be happy an faithful good luck anyways try not to stress urself out an if hes gave u somthing kick hes sorry ass out