Ppp. Hi all. I’m curious to how you would handle this situation. My niece is 8 i…
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Ppp. Hi all. I’m curious to how you would handle this situation. My niece is 8 in a few weeks. That’s primary 3. She was out playing with some 11 and 12 year old boys along with her brother who is 11. Anyway they decided to play dares and she was dared to kiss all the boys there. Apparently her brother told her not to but she did it anyway. Someone told her mum and when asked why she did it she said they all forced her to do it. She kept this accusation up for hours until her mum threatened to phone the police and she finally admitted she did it willingly. We are all horrified. She is 8! Her mum and dad are having a serious talk with her but what else would you do if this was your little girl. Phone police? School? The boys parents? Your thoughts would be appreciated thanks
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Can you reply please. The reason the police has been mentioned to her is because she lied and said they forced her. It’s not funny or acceptable to make accusations like that. It was only a kiss but her parents just wanted to stress how important it is not to make accusations like that. So the police were mentioned just to scare her.
What’s wrong with sitting down and having a conversation about saving kisses for love? About peer pressure and to walk the other way? Talk about princesses and how kisses are saved for our prince charming when we’re older? She’s a little girl you could have a fabulously girly conversation with life lessons scattered in. Make her realise how precious and valuable her intimacy is. They’re all kids involved let the parents know so they can have the respect women and yourself and keep yourself for the one you love talk too. But why go any further “hello police I need to report an incident my 8 year old kissed an 11 year old boy” doesn’t really sound like a crime that :/
Never scared a child with police if you make them afraid of the police one day when they may need an officer they won’t call them out of fear of being in trouble. POLICE ARE HEROS NOT A SCARE TACTIC!!!
Police? Noooo! My daughters 7 n summit similar happened n we sat calmly n discussed it – would hope that a 12 year old would say no mind 😳 id be cross if my 12 year old was part of that tho. Def should no better at that age. Luckily it didn’t go any further.
Do u no the older kids parents? I’d probs mention it to them calmly n just that it’s not really appropriate. Probs wouldn’t let her out with a group of older kids anyway if they’re gunna play those sort of games ??
Maybe when she said they force her she was referring to they put a bit of pressure on her or egged her on X
Good god no.. don’t get the police it’s gonna scare her. . Get her parents to get some information for her age just warning her of dangers…