Ppp I’ve been with my partner 7 years the first couple of years was great he A…
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I’ve been with my partner 7 years the first couple of years was great he Absolutely worshipped me then as time went on things started slowly going down hill. He just started getting disrespectful and borrowing money and putting everyone else before me. I wanted to move in with him get engaged have children etc which he knew I wanted from the start. He refused to move in with me and then would say ok fine set up a meeting then if I set up a meeting and he wouldn’t show up. He said he’s in two minds about marriage it’s just a piece of paper I need to get over it but he’s happy for me to have a child as long as I’m aware he still wouldn’t plan on moving in with me. He goes out at least 4 nights a week with he’s friends and will not tell me what he’s doing (literally have a full blown conversation and not even mention he’s at the pub) and if I just so happened to find out he’s gone and I ask him says ” what does it matter stop being clingy” I’m lucky to see him once a week and even then it’s only for a couple of hours. He never wants to really talk to me about anything or help me out when I have troubles. As I’ve been with him from a young age he’s all I no and before when I threatened to break up with him he promised me the world and said he realised he’s behaviour is not ok. Fast forward he’s still behaving in the same way, haven’t seen him in a month because he’s busy but still out with he’s friends and any time I talk about anything serious or the future he says I’m being clingy and stupid or he says he’ll be ready one day stop nagging him. I’ve had so much go on and just received nothing from him and it’s as if I can now clearly see this isn’t going anywhere. So I was really stern with him and said I need to go ahead and live my life and progress, he said in being silly and I’ll be back so we had a big argument about a week ago and I’ve begged him to leave me alone. Which he did and now today I receive a message from him basically saying “stop playing silly games we’ll go out tonight for dinner and forget this happened” but I don’t want to go to dinner with him I still love him but I stuck by him for 7 years and never got nothing back so enough is enough! Opinions ? Thoughts? Am I being selfish?
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I’d show him the door 😂 there is literally no point if you don’t see each other ever. Different if he was working away ect but if he’s choosing to go galavanting for a month instead of spending time with you then he would have made his choice already 😂 especially as you’ve made him aware you were in it for the long run and wanted to get married ect. X
Keep doing what you are doing, go ahead live your own life, if you do get back with him in the end don’t do it yet, he needs to see that you don’t need him and you will be just fine on your own because its sounds like he has taken advantage that you will always be there wanting to be with him
Me personally would go out to dinner make sure the little boy pays then kindly thank him for the free food and send him on his bike u deserve a lot better than what you get from him x
Get rid ….. he has no respect for you at all … he will carry on with this behaviour because you allow it …… your way out of his league & Mr Right is out there looking for you
Run. You’ll never be happy x
That’s not a relationship
Enough is enough dear..this relo is aint going anyway bt moving in circles.u deserves better u nid love and support..I would say move on with life.start afresh.no yourself n love your self.