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Ppp so my son has autism I split with his dad a few months ago we have since wor…

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Ppp so my son has autism I split with his dad a few months ago we have since worked things out but decided for him to live with his Mam until January so we weren’t rushing straight back into him moving back since we did have problems and split for a reason. Anyways I hadn’t seen my sons health visitor for ages until last week she’s applying for early health assessment that goes through the council. When she was here it didn’t even cross my mind to mention we had split or that we didn’t live together anymore he was here he was upstairs in the spare room updating his cv and applying for jobs (he comes daily to visit or son as him taking him to his mams for two days a week wasn’t working my son was just grabbing his coat and getting upset asking for me) anyways he just sat out the way like I said applying for jobs on my laptop as I said he could. I’m not sure if she knew he was there he moved around a few times. Anyways she filled the form out and wrote our son lived with us both etc I didn’t see she had wrote that she filled the whole form in, she posted me a copy before and when I read it i thought back and thought I better text her to explain so I did, no reply yet but I have anxiety and worry she’s going to be funny with me because I didn’t tell her he didn’t live here while she was here, I did say on the text that he will be moving back in. To be fair if I hadn’t of seen her before he moves back in and she hadn’t have filled the forms in she would have been none the wiser anyways. Now I’m worried I’m going to be judged for being on my own with a autistic child or she will think I need extra support or something when I dont as I said his dad comes daily to see him and play with him etc. I know some health visitors can be nightmares but she seems ok I’m just worried she will think I should have informed her sooner or something.
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  • It’s not really any off her business and you don’t have to update her about your relationship status. She should have asked if he was living there before making the assumption and writing it on the form. I honestly wouldn’t worry about it.

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