PPP I really need advice on how to not be friends with someone. At the start of …

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I really need advice on how to not be friends with someone. At the start of the year I made friends with a girl and everything was great she was really nice buy slowly she became more and more horrible with very rude and sly comments constantly. Judging how I cook how I clean how I dress my child she even made a rude remark to my boyfriend about how can he be wearing AirMax trainers at the age of 23. We ended up falling out over the silliest thing and she became really nasty. Constantly calling me and my boyfriend saying she was gonna beat me up saying she was going to kick down my door. She came round to pick up something she’s left at mine and brought round a top id lent her and when she had left and I went to open the bag my top was in she had cut it to shreds. She then managed to worm her way back in after I left a very important ring with her and she started saying we would meet to return it (engagement ring) but when I met her she had forgotton it and brought me lunch instead so I then had to meet again to get the ring back. She forced herself to be my friend knowing I am not someone to be rude and tell her to go away. I eventually told her I didn’t want to be her friend after she casually made a joke to my boyfriend saying ‘she knows I would knock her out any day’ she also wants started talking about her sex life to my boyfriend whilst I was in the kitchen and my boyfriend was completely shocked and didn’t know. What to say. So anyway the friendship ended after the argument when I turned around in the heat of the moment and went I don’t want to be your friend. She ended up coming into my house and sitting there until my boyfriend told her he would drop her home because she wouldn’t go. After that she sent me loads of horrible messages until I blocked her. Although I’m now home most days by myself with my child with not much to do I am so much happier I’ve got her out my life. A few months has passed now and this morning I got a call off a blocked number. It was her and she started small talk with me I was a blunt as can be and she then ended the convo saying well I’m defo gonna come see you Thursday I miss you so much and then said gotta get back to work bye.
I really really struggle to be rude to anyone. One of my best friends tells me I need to get a backbone and it’s true. I just struggle to tell this girl to go away I don’t want this friendship. I really thought I got rid of her till she called me on a unknown number this morning. I literally don’t know how to get out of this and I think she knows I don’t want to be her friend but just knows I’m to timid to say it or be mean. I know most people will tell me to just tell her to fuck off but is there anyone who understand what I mean and would also be timid to be rude and tell the truth. She’s so confrontational and I just don’t know how to get rid of her. I really thought I had and again she’s just popped up again inviting herself over. As we used to be so close she kinda Of knows my routine. She knows I’m a stay at home mum and I’m usually at home as I don’t have many friends and she knows I’m strict on bedtime so she knows I’ll always be home in the evening which is why it’s so hard to make excuses as to why I would be busy. Please help 😞
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