Private post please. I’ll try keep this as short as possible! I need some advic…

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Private post please. I’ll try keep this as short as possible!
I need some advice as how to handle this situation.
Me & my partner have been together 8 years, we have 2 daughters. (2 year old & 3months old) we’ve been through an awful lot with each, I was attacked, we had a car crash, he’s had open heart surgery, we got told I couldn’t have children, I ended up pregnant (bad pregnancy) had our daughter but she has a rare medical condition, I then had server anxiety with her, my partner had bad depression, we had a miscarriage at 12 weeks, I then found out he was cheating on me, at the same time I found I was still pregnant with a hidden twin of the baby we lost. When she was born I had a breakdown of everything that went on. Me and him are still together even though what he did. I adore him.
But now, he’s extremely insecure. He hates how he looks, thinks hes a rubbish dad, think I’m going to go get revenge sex to upset him. His mum doesn’t help because she tells him he isn’t good looking (in my eyes he’s perfect and all I need and want) she tells him there are better daddy’s out there.
He is now also saying he wants us to have fun, not just be parent’s. (We are 24)
I really don’t know if he is depressed again or just going through a phase. What am I ment to do to keep him happy, make him believe I love him?
Thank you xx
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