Private post please. Please don’t be nasty as I am already in floods of tears an…
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Private post please.
Please don’t be nasty as I am already in floods of tears and feel like the worse mum in the world.
Me and my partner have just split up, he is demanding to take our children who are 2 years old and 6 months old, away to see there grandparents in Cornwall. I don’t want them to go as they will be around an alcoholic, there Dad will be going out on an evening and they will be left with the alcoholic. They can’t phone me to say they are ok or anything and I feel so low. My ex has called me a bad mum and every other name under the sun to try and manipulate me. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. He says he is taking them and I have no choice what so ever. They are my boys and the thought they could be in any kind of horrible environments scares me. I don’t want to keep them from there grandparents I really don’t but what other choice do I have? There Dad never helped me with the kids when we were together so I doubt very much he will do anything now. I’m at a complete loss and I can’t do with anymore name calling as I feel like the fat, ugly, shit mother and every other name he likes to call me already.
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For starters, ignore every name he calls you. And with the children going away maybe try and explain to him you don’t want them goin because they’d be with a alcoholic. I personally wouldn’t send them but in those situations is very hard to stand your ground
Tell him go fluff off no chance would I let my kids go c