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Basically I’m going to try and keep this as short as I can, but with emotions running absolutely everywhere I just need some advice.

Me and my partner have been together for over a year now and I’m not going to lie, we’ve had the most amazing and perfect times, we truly have but we’ve had our ups and downs too.

Nearly 2 weeks ago, he said to me that he wanted some changes and to do more family time than we’re doing at the moment (this isn’t his daughter, but he treats her like she is). I understood that and I agreed to try and do this as much as possible. We don’t live together so it makes it harder to do these things with only seeing each other at weekends when he’s not at work but I’m more than happy to do this as this is what I want too.

Anyway, that weekend after I had came home, we spoke about things and everything seemed to change from being good to awful. We’ve constantly argued over this time and I just want to sort things out with him.

Yes, I’ll admit that with emotions being all over the place I may have been moody and on the weekend, I did actually go to his house, to try and surprise him and talk things through at the same time too but he said he needed space and didn’t want to see or speak to me.

I’ve gave him space, and I’ll give him more space if that’s what he needs but he’s saying he doesn’t want to continue the relationship any further and it’s killing me.

I just want to try and make things for the better for us and to sort everything through too. To make us all happy and to continue onto making a bigger future for us too.

Yes I’m not perfect, I’m far from it but he’s truly completed me and everything else too. I just want to show him that I can change things and that he won’t regret giving me the chance but from where I’m looking at it, he just doesn’t seem to understand how much this means to me and how much I want to sort everything. I’ve asked to meet up but it’s always a no and there’s no point in speaking about things etc.

I’m not eating properly, I’m not drinking properly and I just can’t stop crying.

The thing is, yes both men and women are difficult to deal with and I know that, but has someone had similar before? And how did you make it through this?

Thank you, and sorry about the long post and if it’s all over the place too, it’s just there’s so much on my mind right now. Trying to make our relationship better and to make everything else better at the same time too.
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