SORRY FOR THE LONG POST!! Me and my partner have been together for just over 6 …

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SORRY FOR THE LONG POST!!

Me and my partner have been together for just over 6 years, our little boy is now 5 weeks old today. I’m really upset at the moment because this morning at 2our little boy woke up for a feed, drank his food, burped had a nappy change he ended up screaming up until 5am during this time I asked my partner as he was dealing with him if he wanted help 4 separate times, during this time (we live with my parents atm) my mum came in and asked my partner if he wanted any help to this point he said alright and she took him off of him and he settled within half and hour. I was awake at this point as he pulled the pillow off of my head really angrily. I asked him what’s wrong and he said he had the hump that my mum was helping him and I weren’t I said to him don’t play that card as I asked you 4 times over this space and you told me to fuck off and sleep so I did just that as I get hardly any sleep! So our little boy fell asleep round about 3.30 for about 30 minutes and then he woke up again this point my partner was still awake on his phone so he dealt with him. I asked him again if he wanted help he told me no he was more than capable and I should but out. So at 5 I woke up again because he was screaming (wasn’t in a deep sleep could hear everything) i knew he was getting frustrated so I offered again he said no, so I carried on laying in bed with my eyes closed but listening i could hear our little boy screaming and my partner saying fuck sake why won’t you shut the fuck up etc. My mum then came in again because she could hear him and took him off of him for a minute while he got himself together. I went for a wee and came back and told him to move onto the other side of the bed And I will deal with him to which his reply was “ oh your actually going to help now?” I said I offered more then enough times to help. He had the hump my mum was helping as he said “she butted in and his more than capable of looking after his son” I sat in bed listening to my mum helping out getting ready to go down and help and he said “are you actually going to be a mother and look after your son for once?” Which to then I got upset and pissed off and walked away. I’ve now been sitting downstairs since 5 with our little boy, his finally gone off to sleep but now I can’t as I’m wide awake and so upset and angry he said this! It makes me really think about our relationship! I know that ovis we are both tired and when your tired you say things you don’t mean but I’m really upset but the attitude that came with it! Over the last two weeks since him going back to work his been so unpleasant to be around, one minute his lovely cuddling saying how much he loves us both and then the next minute his saying he would rather be at work and rather have brought a puppy rather than having a baby! I’m just so confused and upset what to do! This isn’t the man that I fell in love with and his never been like this since going to work 2 weeks ago! Advice please ladies? Do you think I’m in the wrong?
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