Sorry to be asking again, but could you do a PP please. I think I already know …
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Sorry to be asking again, but could you do a PP please.
I think I already know the answer, but I wanna hear some opinions first.
**PLEASE RESPOND**
My partner and I have argued quite a lot lately. It’s a bad mixture of me having anxiety/slight depression and him going behind my back and doing the same thing again but on a different platform (not cheating).
So we both got sick of the arguing and decided for both our sakes we needed be reasonable and put it behind us.
But now it seems every time I have an issue with him, he loses it and starts linking this argument to our previous ones saying “all you do is go on at me and make problems out of nothing” the problem I brought up is he doesn’t put effort in sexually. It’s always right before we go to sleep when I’m tired and he wants to get to sleep easier (That’s how it seems). He also doesn’t engage with me to get me in the mood and just expects me to be ready. So I told him about it and he said “I dunno” I asked if he’s attracted to me, he says yes.
I get upset and he responds with “your always upset, go give someone else your shit”
Is it me? or is it him making me feel like it’s me?
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It sounds like it is him making you feel bad. Don’t give yourself to him then when he asks why, just say that he can’t expect you to just give it to him without any kind of thing to make you feel special. For example cuddles, kisses on the sofa, telling you how good you look, and touching you. Things need to improve otherwise it’s not going to work. You also need to tell him that you don’t mean he’s to do these things just when he wants a bit, you need to feel special all the time.
One thing you need to also be aware of is that he may be depressed too which will be mood altering as you know. Maybe try sitting down for dinner and instead of the usual thing us women do of nagging or jumping down his throat, maybe try saying something like “is everything ok babe (or whatever pet name you use), I’m worried about you as you don’t seem your usual self at the moment.” Make him realise you’re there for him rather than doing what us women do and nag at him lol xx
Just don’t give him anything sexually. Not even a kiss. He will soon think fuck
It’s him get rid .It will make your anxiety worse hun.
As you said at the start you already know. Do the right thing xx