Can I get a ppp as it’s a deeply personal matter and I have family on here Hi l…

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Can I get a ppp as it’s a deeply personal matter and I have family on here

Hi ladies

I’m having an issue with my gran

She’s independent but very…. needy.
She lives with my grandpa and he is an alcoholic (but I must stress, a quiet never bothers anyone alcoholic)

They are both only in their 60s but have a list of health problems making them realistically 80 odd. He watches his daytime tv, heads over to the pub and gets in and goes to bed. Every day. No bother to anyone

The problem is she is making his life hell. She’s constantly shouting at him and putting him down and as the person in the family that keeps an eye on them I get no end of ear ache off her about him. Constant calls and texts round the clock. She states he’s fallen, I go straight there and he’s fine, same with nose bleeds and Bach coughs etc.. there’s never anything wrong!
And it’s killing me inside. She flies off the handle so spontaneously, she did it today stating I do nothing for her blah blah blah and it really hurt me as I do absolutely everything I can for them. Shopping, cleaning etc. Something’s not right with her. But I can’t walk away as they will be left alone. She must phone 6-8 times a day to either chat or talk about grandpa and she’s exhausting me

What do I do 😩
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