Can I have a private post please? I have been having problems lately with my pa…

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Can I have a private post please?

I have been having problems lately with my partners dad & step mam, for no reason.
I have a daughter who is 6 months old, it’s there first and only grandchild and since she was born they’ve seen her roughly 4/5 times.. and the last time they came and see her was end of January. I got on great with them. I would message them every other day with pictures and updates but I felt like it was me making all the effort. So I told my partner I would stop, just to see if they would make the effort and they haven’t.. since then things have gotten worse. My partners dad rang him about 2 month ago saying one of his wife’s friends seen something at her work saying we owed £1000s out, of course me and my partner panicked as we didn’t know anything about it, and his dad said I must be hiding it from him. So I rang the company and I didnt owe anything. So my partner phoned his dad obviously and said we didn’t and his dad basically called me a liar. Then went on to say that “my mam” had phoned the company me got his wife’s friend sacked from her job… bearing in mind I haven’t seen my mam since the age of 4 so he dropped himself deeper into his lie… things have just went from there. Now my partners dad and his wife don’t speak to me, they have blocked me from social media aswell. They still haven’t bothered to ask about there granddaughter or tried to see her.
I would never stop them seeing her. My partner knows this, although I hate what they did and what could of happened if my partner didn’t believe me, I still wouldn’t stop them.
All this has escalated from his step mam asking to take my daughter out on her own and at the time I wasn’t ready, I’m still not. I have massive anxiety about leaving her, which I explained and she just went in a huff.
I don’t really know what else I can do?
I don’t understand any of it tbh. And I don’t know how they expect to see our daughter…

What would you do in this situation?
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