Hi can I have a private post please thank you Don’t even know where to start b…

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Hi can I have a private post please thank you

Don’t even know where to start but I’m happily married for 14 years but my husbands family cause soo much drama One minute they are fine with me and the next they chat and cause soo much shit, my fil has gone to hit me twice putting his hands around my neck and I forgiven him then there was the racist comments to me and then the constant arguments over silly things…..

Now my dilemma is although I’m married and happy I’m thinking of ending it all 😢 iv had enough we have a new sister in law and me and her get on soo well and I was telling my sister in law how great she is and that I feel like iv known her for such a long time, then my sister inlaws replies to my msg and says ” yes she’s very respectful and will always look after my Mum and dad and that she doesn’t understand how anyone can just bad mouth there inlaws and not want to help them etc etc” literally 11 paragraphs of how daughter inlaws need to respect and help there husbands parents …… am I wrong in thinking she has an issue with my relationship with the new sister in law? Is this a personal dig at me? Am I just being paranoid? So I confronted her and said iv never once discussed my business with anyone even when all this abuse went on and iv always respected your mum and dad I may not help but I have kids and my mum is terminally ill now if I wanted to looked after your parents maybe in the future I will but it starts at home my mum comes first and foremost b4 yours and tbh I find it soo hard to even sit in the same room as them as I’m always reminded of the bad times I always think imagine my daughter was treated like this how can I accept this and for my kids to think it’s normal,
They chat soo much even and make up soo much drama and I’m sick of it now I feel like moving away and I don’t want my husband to loose out because his family are always shit stirring, I think they are jealous of the relationship I have with the new sister in law? What is it! I need advice really I’m so upset,
Oh just to add she then apologised and said I didn’t mean to offend you and I shouldn’t need to say sorry because it’s all in your head it’s not my fault you took it the wrong way and now I’m thinking did I take it the wrong way? Or is she playing mind games and she knows exactly what she’s doing to cause so much drama Iv told her stuff in confidence and the very next day has said to her parents I said this that and the other! I don’t trust her and i think she is out to sabotage me and I don’t know why?! No bashing please I’m confused 🤷🏽‍♀️ sorry for the long msg and thank you for reading x
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