I really need to rant and feel like I’d like a few other opinions on this matter…

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I really need to rant and feel like I’d like a few other opinions on this matter. ( To do with MIL ).

Basically I no longer want my MIL in mine or my children’s lives. I know some people would turn around and say this is wrong of me but I really do have my reasons. Whenever she is around me and my family it’s like she sucks the positivity from us all! She so vile with the things she says and what she does! I will give some prime examples.
Things she said to me and my OH
” if she wasn’t so big she’d be pretty. So be careful she doesn’t lose weight as she might go somewhere else. ” .. ” why are you so ugly ” ( about me ).. ” your nose looks bigger than usual and you’re looking uglier than usual today ” ( about my OH ).
When I fell pregnant with my first. My daughter she told me to get rid of her. Then took months ( to come round to her ). She wonders in and out of her life. She doesn’t even know who she is. I then fell pregnant 2nd time with twins 😍. She done nothing but put a downer on it. Said I wouldn’t be able to cope with all three children and how I’ll need sure start to help me with them! Obviously this really offended me. I wasn’t even given the chance to ‘cope’. Well 6 months on and my children are all happy and so am I!! Couldn’t be happier and I think I am doing just amazing! She still puts digs in there about my parenting. Every time she comes over she starts a row with my OH until they’re physically shouting at one another. She really does suck the fun out of everything. She also treats my children differently. Coming back with stuff for two and not the other. Cuddles one baby more than the other. Makes it obvious she has a favourite etc. She makes my blood boil. I don’t want her around me because I’ve bitten my tongue and don’t want my children to see me having a row or getting angry. What else can I do? My OH has enough of her but feels sorry for her. She’s an alcoholic also. So her mood swings are awful.
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