another pp please after moving forward from last past 4 months ago… posted in…

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another pp please after moving forward from last past 4 months ago…

posted in Aug me and hubby split, we did our own things cos he worked days I worked eves days off kept same routine, I drank a lot, he got engrossed in Xbox lead to a huge row which scared his 2 kids 11 and 10 and my son 15…. he moved out…

we have done counselling, spent time rebuilding our marriage and last weekend he moved back in. his kids only found out 6 weeks ago we was trying to sort things out but my son 15 has known and hubby been spending time with him.

issue is hubby kids refuse to see me, ok they need time and when hubby was living at a friend’s I made dinner for them on mid week visits to dada, brought them treats etc to show I want to make N effort…. tonight first night at our home we decided he would bring kids back here I would be ready to leave for work and just say hi and bye…. they saw my car and refused to come up…

yes I know they are upset of what happened 4 months ago and are anxious hence always cooked fave meals etc.

they have a reputation of playing hubby and their mum and after I suggested (before problems) hubby, mum, her fiance AND me talk to sort it out.

I do understand their frustration and I am making an effort whilst not seeing them…

suggested to hubby to ask them how they want to move forward but not had an answer.

I do feel they are playing on things to an extent but also understand how they feel… suggested to hubby we go bowling of coral reef (voted UK best new water park is waking distance but he doesn’t want to push thwm)..
my marriage won’t work if hubby has to have 2 separate lives so just need a lil advice… I’m bloody 36….feel what ever I do or suggest I hit a wall. thanks all…xx
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