Can I get a ppp? Can anyone give me some tips or just some reassurance I’m not a…
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Can I get a ppp? Can anyone give me some tips or just some reassurance I’m not alone? Please don’t judge or bash. I’m a 23 year old stay at home mum, I had my rainbow baby 4 months ago. My baby is very attached and rarely goes down always wants to be held and be rocked to sleep , my partner does nothing to help me, he works Monday to Friday I thinks that when he comes home he has to do nothing cause he’s just in from work, he never comes off Facebook and has yet to give baby a bottle or change a nappy! 4 months later! He has also got my smallie in the habit of sleeping in the bed so he won’t go into his cot for me now so I spend up to an hour rocking him to sleep at night before putting him down in the bed , he goes to sleep at 9 an usually wakes at about 3 and crys till 4 or half past even after being fed. I’m exhausted and I feel myself shaking with frustration, and I am so embarrassed to admit I give out to him to go to sleep. I’m a terrible mother and when he does go to sleep I cry myself to sleep for giving out to him I feel like such a bully. All this time my partner is soundly asleep. I’m exhausted from going all day with him and even a little help at night would probably do wonders for me. My question is does anyone have any tips that could ease my frustration? I’m fine all day and will deal with anything but night time kills me 😢 thanks for reading x
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It sounds like you could have post natal depression please go get help don’t be embarrassed it’s more common than you think I’ve had and pregnant with baby 5 and my depression has been awful but I’m being sorted so I don’t get it again you are not a bad mum it is exhausting being a new parent how ever many children you have or age etc because for the first 6 months the baby is most demanding from my experience causing you to feel like this I hope you get sorted Hun good luck xx