Can I have a p.p please No judging Am a single mum my “ex” husband will only s…

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Can I have a p.p please

No judging

Am a single mum my “ex” husband will only see him about 4 hours a month. He refuses to divorce me even though he’s in a relationship with the girl he had an affair with for a number of years. I’ve asked for a divorce and get told no as he doesn’t want to marry his psycho bitch gf (his words) I used to live 5 mins away from him and he didn’t see our son for over 3 years I then moved 60 miles away and he was allowed to see our son again his gf sticks her nose in a lot and stated it was against her rules for him to take him. I wasn’t even allowed a phone number for him. I changed my name by deed poll as he wouldn’t divorce me and want to change my son’s. My ex is barely even a father, he lies to him all the time and I’ve offered him time over the school holidays he stated he can’t get time off then but for the 2nd year in a row I’ve found out he’s on holiday and yet again blamed it on breaking his phone. He went away in the UK and didnt contact our son as stated he didn’t want to be charged extra on his phone bill when I stated it’s still in the UK and wouldn’t cost anything he changed the subject. His family barely see our son either he gets left out all the family parties including weddings etc it’s been this way since we separated. Am wanting to change our son’s name by deed poll as to me my ex doesn’t care about our son so why should he have his surname. I want to get passports sorted so I can take him away as told his dad if he wanted to take him on holiday he can I’d never stop him. He’ll go away with his gf and his other child and leave our son out. I offer contact on a plate to him even got a lawyer to offer contact and he didn’t reply to any letters.
I’ve endometriosis and we had split before I got diagnosed when I told him he told me if I got diagnosed earlier we would of still been together as he assumed I was lazy and not part of the condition to have chronic fatigue. This was only last year and we had split in 2011 even then I had a miscarriage but he denied the baby was his as would be admitting to cheating on his gf with his wife (this was before I found out about them)

Am.I right to want to change his surname or should I leave it as it is and go back to my married name so I don’t get hassle with holidays as seen people have issues when their child has a different name to theirs on passport
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