Can I have a post please. So basically the other day I posted in this group abou…

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Can I have a post please.
So basically the other day I posted in this group about me being indecisive about an abortion or not. Just a little bit of background if you never read the post but basically I’m a 33 year old woman with an 11 year old daughter already! I brought her up singlehandedly. I was seeing this guy for a few months and have ended up being 5 weeks pregnant now 👀 stupid I know, and at my age too 🤦🏼‍♀️
He has been so vile to me and told me he didn’t want anything to do with it if I kept it, and he won’t speak to me face to face about it either so I am pretty much on my own in this.
I have been thinking loads about it and I’m swaying more towards keeping my baby rather than aborting! I’m not gonna pretend I’m ok, cos I’m not, I’m scared shitless. At present I’m signed off sick as all I keep doing is crying day and night. I rang my dad while he was on holiday with his partner, I needed to tell him as we are close cos I couldn’t stop crying, and his response was amazing. After I told him he said “oh god, I can’t answer this one cos I’m a man and I won’t have the right words to explain. So do you want to talk to Theresa? (His partner) then he said “and you need to stop all this crying cos you can’t think straight, just pretend over the next few days you are keeping it and see how you feel, and cut all contact with Lewis (baby daddy)!” (Good advise from a man id say)
So his partner came on the phone and we was talking for about an hour, she said my dad and her would stand by me whatever decision I make. I also rang Marie Stopes and cancelled my consultation appointment for an abortion, but kept the appointment for a counselling session. I went to my GP as well yesterday where he signed me off work for a week, and he has referred me to a place called “options” where u can talk through your thoughts and feelings about having a baby or aborting. Like I said, at the moment I’m swaying more towards keeping as I’ve been looking at baby names 👀 and prams 🙈
I will never understand why he has completely turned his back on his unborn and been so vile to me! He already has two kids from two mums at present.. it’s just shocked me! I hope for his and the babies sake he can just be grown up about all this and turn it all around. Or perhaps this response was his psychological way of trying to get me to get rid of it 🤷🏼‍♀️ who knows, but I won’t be dictated to when it’s my life and my body xx
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