Can I have a private post please? Have friends and family on the pages and don’t…

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Can I have a private post please? Have friends and family on the pages and don’t want them knowing it’s me. Basically my partner has a daughter from a previous relationship. He doesn’t get to see her xmas day, only has her a few hours on Boxing Day. This year on xmas day I’ll be almost a month from giving birth, and he’s refusing to come to any family members (mine or his) for dinner or even just an hour to show face. I understand that not seeing his daughter on xmas day is really hard for him however I don’t think it’s fair we’re all left to feel miserable too because of his mood. I’m now starting to feel selfish because he’s clearly extremely upset at the fact he won’t see her and doesn’t want to sit around family when they’ve got all their kids there (all kids are either his cousins or siblings) because I genuinely feel like it ruins my Christmas. I’m aware hormones and whatnot will be making me feel worse but it’s like he can’t even put in a bit of effort for me or anyone else because his daughters not there. He has young siblings (5+) that miss out on seeing there big brother because he’d rather sit at home miserable. Sorry it’s so long and ranty I just refuse to feel like a cow because I’ve asked him to make a bit of effort for me and the rest of his family this year. Am I being selfish? Am I a cow? Please help!😪
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