Can I have a private post please Hun…. So today my hormones are all over the p…
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Can I have a private post please Hun…. So today my hormones are all over the place. But from day one I’ve been in two minds about being pregnant. I’m 12 weeks and I literally feel nothing towards the baby. I’m not with the baby’s dad I hate him for leaving me when finding out I was pregnant and ever since I’ve just not wanted this baby. But I can’t go through with an abortion. I’m scared I’m not gonna love this baby when it’s born. I just don’t know what to do. Just so emotional
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Can you reply to Kelly for be please. I’m still eating ect tbh I’m eating like a horse lol I don’t want to harm my baby but I am working all hours I can get. Tbh I know I’ll cope on my own as a single person but I am worried about not having enough money and I’m worried I won’t live off my mat pay. Also worried my company won’t let me back after mat leave I’m more worried financially then actually being with my babies dad. I wanna be able to give my baby everything in whole world but I’m scared I’ll just have a breakdown and won’t cope and the worst thing I would want is to not love this baby when they are born x
Can you reply to my post please. I am so alone ATM I’m scared to tell my mum because of the situation I’m in and I’m scared how she’s going to react. Don’t want her to be ashamed of me. All I’ve ever wanted was my own family and the way my ex walked away and got with someone else it did hurt. I thought I could go alone and do it but I just feel so blank about the whole thing. Xx
I think you will in time, as you get to the later stage when you can feel them moving around and especially when the baby is born it will all change you will fall in love instantly it will be the most amazing little thing you will have trust me🙈💗xx
Honestly I didn’t feel much of a connection with my baby while I was pregnant and he was planned. I also didn’t bond with him for a couple of days after he was born. It’s always put about that you’re supposed to love and adore your baby from the off but it’s perfectly normal not to feel like that. I think you’ll feel differently when he/she is born x
It.will be bitter sweet love.you are obviously upset about the break up and then you.are.pregnant and alone at the minute.if you.cant get an abortion surely.thats telling you something xx just wait till the baby starts kicking and moving and when it all feels real..maybe your feelings will change…too many mixed.emotions all at.once.chin up xx
I was exactly the same with my 2nd. Same situation too.. I had pre natal depression but didn’t take anything for it… hv suggested adoption when I told her but as soon as I had him and held him in my arms.. I fell in love. Talk to someone that would understand. Hope you can get through it. Stay strong xx
You know what I had a coworker that was the same. She ended up not eating on days, saying how she hated the baby etc. she had the kid but it was born with problems. I’m not surprised since she went through stages of not eating in the pregnancy for 4-5 days at a time. Look all I’m going to say is, please look after yourself during this pregnancy and it’s probably too late to get an abortion anyway but it’s not to late to be treated for depression go to the doctor. It sounds like you are depressed. The best thing to do is get yourself financially ready. Work as much as you can now while your still early in pregnancy and SAVE. Things will be easier knowing you don’t need to struggle when baby is born.