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Can I have a private post please I need to no if this is me being immature or hormonal of if he’s right me and my other half had a rocky relationship since our baby died we split a few weeks ago after he’d moved in a few weeks before that, we’d agreed we’d give it 100% and it was all or nothing and we’d leave the past behind wel it was like a different relationship for a while I had his dinner on the table a bath run after work a brew in the morning let it go when he was snappy because he was tired (one of our problems was id take it to heary and not drop it and Stert arguments) but I didn’t I jus said ok your tired and dropped alot. But him being tired and arsy kept happening for 3 weeks he snapped and moaned every day until one day I said I’m not doin this go to ur mum’s for a bit and if ur so unhappy (he kept saying it) go meet someone else wel he left alright and didn’t come back wouldn’t talk nothing I asked because I was hurting to just give me space and he could have the kids but to come collect them and jus leave me alone he did he just didn’t care every time I tried to talk to him he wasn’t having any of it, fast-forward he’s turned up tonight sayin he wants to be civil and start coming to the house and be friends iv told him after 3 years and me being pregnant and the way things have been and he’s not had the decency to talk to me atal I can’t do it, I said we was getting somewhere (well I was) I wasn’t getting the effort I was putting in back and then he walked he’s turned round and said that we’ve both not been happy for ages, I said wel that defrts the object of even trying again I n the first place if it was gonna start with everything that happened before there was no point it was just doomed he’s Stil blaming the past and using it as a reason and when I say u tell me I didn’t try my hardest and he can’t because he nos I did and when I say and u had me so upset and it wasn’t fair he just keeps circling back to how it was before sayin he really wanted to start but we was never going to be happy I said he should have walked then instead of letting me give him everything he says I’m being stupid and unreasonable am I wrong
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