Can i Have a private post please ? I nees advice and thoughts, no bashing please…

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Can i Have a private post please ? I nees advice and thoughts, no bashing please.

Bit of a long story but i will try and make it as short as i can. Me and my Fiancess are currently under couples coucilling for other reasons but, yes yesterday i started up my computer and i had a notifaction od a message that had been sent to my finacess facebook from a girl ( he account uses my other email address because his doesnt work for some reason) but anyway my curiousity got the better of me and i switched messenger accounts to his , not his full profile just messages) to find no message from this woman.

He comes home and i ask who she is. he says shes some girl he knows through someone else. Fair enough. so i then question why he has deleted the message she had sent him for a minute he went quiet and then said he deleted it because he thought it would annoy me and that he frequesntly deletes messages to clear his inbox, yet he has messages on here from months ago for atuff he was selling that has long sold still there. I asked why would it annoy me. He said becauae she was asking how our children were.

I was ashtonished he would think something so silly would annoy me. He walks into the living room. I sit for a moment and think about it. i got up and walked through and told him, im sorry but i dont buy that. why delete it? This isnt yhe first time he has done something like this either. a few years ago i was pregnant with our first and i went round out neighbours who were are good with and he texted her saying “just between me and you, ypu looked very sexy yesterday” well i exploded wen i got hom and he tried to deny it but eventually buckled palmed it off and said its only banter. i was joking. Im sorry but im no fool. Guess what…. mesage deleted. his end. Had i not of been at her house i reckon id over never known. ( shes married btw)

Anyway back to the other one. I told him him he is ridiculous to think id be annoyed by her just asking how our kids are if shes just a friend. its stupid. which is why im suspicous as to why he would delete it.

Later that night i have a nosy on her profile to see he had left a comment on her profile pic. “looking good girl!!” He never EVER leave comments like that on my pics. infact none at all. i just get a poxy Like.

He cant understand why im so upset. He barely even comes near me as it is sex wise im lukcy if i see it once a month. which also plays on my mind. To top it all off about a month ago we had painters here on our eastate painting all the houses. I offered them a tea or coffee just to be polite as they were working and he later accused me of having one of them in the house because of it! which is obsurd and not true. and then tells me i have massive paranoia issues. yet hes admittes at our sessions thats he has the issue not me.

tell me im not being silly and pathetic over it? im so.upset and hurt. We havent spoken since last night i cries myself to sleeep.
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