Can I have a private post please …. Is he abusive or is he unwell ? I need he…

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Can I have a private post please ….

Is he abusive or is he unwell ?
I need help deciding as I’m clearly blinded by love …

My partner is severely moody.
So bad to the point it’s unbearable to live with.
We have no kids together (miscarried in aug) my daughter lives with us from previous relationship she’s 8.

My partner isn’t asked to do anything around the house I do it all. He plays the computer every day for up to 12 hours each day everyone is pretty much ignored while he’s on it. The internet will play up and he will moan at everyone for it and moan that my little one watching you tube is interfering with it to the point she ends up coming off YouTube. One minute he can be so loving and amazing and the next he’s evil Id be here all day if i was to explain it all but he generally makes the house a horrible place to be we walk on eggshells and do everything to please him I feel like a child I’m so scared of him and him kicking off as he has been aggressive in the past. Ive spoken to him about it several times and he’s said he is depressed and will get help. But he’s just getting worse! 2 days into a new year that he promised would be different and he’s kicked off again because my daughter never went to sleep till 3 am and then woke us up at 7am after having a bad dream so he’s still in bed in a mood .. Is this depression ? I suffer severe depression and anxiety but would never dream of acting the way he does to people. What do I do? What do I say to him? Do i force him to the doctors or is this just him? Please no bashing I’m sitting here in bits scared but completely ready to walk away if that’s what’s best …. thank you

Ps my daughter never sees us argue or him kicking off he will say what he has to say away from her then give me the silent treatment until he thinks I’ve been punished enough then speak to me like nothing has happened.
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