Can I have a private post please…… I’ve been with my bf 6 months he lives …
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Can I have a private post please……
I’ve been with my bf 6 months he lives with me n my kids n when we got together n first moved in he was great…. I mean he’s great with the kids and adores me n is a generally nice guy… but the last 6 weeks he hasn’t given me money for bills and not the amount for shopping that we agreed on I work part time and I usually have a bit for rainy day or emergencies in the bank well I’ve been paying all the bills and instead of paying certain amounts weekly like I did when o was single I have just been paying the whole amount stupidly believing that the Friday he would pay me as promised….. I’ve used all my reserved n me n my kids always go to Butlins every year n he promised Friday that as his boss was sorted he would give me 300 that he owed that was including this weeks bills n shopping n then pay the hol….. well today is the last day the holiday can be paid n surprise surprise he still not been paid….. I’ve now got to break my kids heart n tell them we ain’t going on the holiday that they love n my daughter who has started he periods is having to wear my pants as she’s desperate…. I’m at my wits end I don’t know what to do I’m actually sat here sobbing x
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Could you please reply….. I know he hasn’t been getting paid properly but to me I think he should be on at his boss about it and about my kids going without n bills shouldn’t just be upto me he keeps saying he’s stressed about not being paid n that I’m going on….. I suffer depression n anxiety so making me panic….. I wouldn’t be going to work if for 6 weeks I’d been paid here n there the odd bit of money it’s causing us to argue n it’s the only thing we argue about x
6 months in and your writing this already. Fuck that and fuck him. You was obviously better of single so that should say it all. Doesn’t matter if he adores your kids and you, he can adore you all from he’s own house while your enjoying your holidays without the loser
No offence but if you weren’t with this man you would have to afford it yourself somehow. You’ve been with this man 6months and he has moved it with kids that aren’t his? So he’s paying I assume half for the shopping that you do so he is paying for the kids shopping as well. If they are his kids fair enough I can understand your frustrations. If he is supposed to be going on holiday with you then obviously he needed to pay you but if he wasn’t then why should he pay and also if you go on holiday every year with your kids how come you don’t have the money this year as obviously butlins is expensive. I’m not trying to bash I’m just saying maybe don’t promise things every year incase something comes up and you can’t manage to go on holiday for whatever reason. Maybe this guy is just stressed out as well. I’d suggest sitting down with him and telling him to get it sorted or he will be finding somewhere else to live if he loves you he will sort it xx
You got your self a grown ass kid … no but really you rushed into things to quickly if he cant afford to pay you then he shouldn’t be staying with you ? I feel bad for you but you need to put your foot down
I’m the poster I pay all the rent he has to pay half to shopping and half bills that are just household….I have separate bills etc that aren’t his so I pay them…. my shopping used to be 40 a week n it’s now 100 with a man to feed n we are both smokers n I seem to be buying the cigs too….. I pay my kids dinner money and buy my kids the things they need always have and gone on holiday…. my kids aren’t babies either they are 12 n 7 so it ain’t like they are crying screaming kids they are well behaved….. he had his own place with his ex for 10 years fuck knows what he was doing then
Sometimes you can’t help the way you feel and ofcourse you wouldn’t have moved him in without doing all the necessary checks. Your in love enjoy it however seems like something’s off if he is saying he has no money all the time. You need to have a chat with him and decide whether it’s worth it. Sounds like you might be better off without him or at least if he moves out. What age is he? Might just be immature and not realise what it takes to run a house xxx
how did u manage before God he hasn’t been paid tidy maybe he doesn’t like to nag his boss u just sound like a brat it ain’t going ur way so ur gonna kick off and 6 months he’s already living with u and ur kids and ur daughter wearing ur go asda ffs get her some cheap ones for £2 simple
You dont need no bitch! Doesn’t matter how he treats you if his actions dont match yours, you want a man not a pussy, now your kids have too go without. Finish him x
Its abit to soon to be living with you and your children this is what happens when people move to fast in there relationship its your children who are really gonna suffer from it and its not fair on them they didn’t ask for none of this.. Put your foot down don’t be with someone who can’t still to there promises what if he makes promises with your kids and breaks them they gonna be heartbroken stop thinking about DICK and think about your children
Well I’m sorry to say but I feel like 6 months is to soon for u to allow him into ur home and next to ur kids I mean how long have u known him for ? If he’s behaving like this now kick him to the curve
If this is how hes gonna. behave get rid .ur doing good on ur own
You’ve been with your bf 6 months and moved him in with your kids are you crazy .. never trust a man you don’t no
6 months says it all! Bit to soon to be doing anything like that stand on ur own two feet!
u need to get rid or sort him out, hes taking u for a mug n needs to know u wont stand for it,,ignore the comments about 6 months being soon, been with my husband 9 yrs and ours was all rushed, we are happy, hes shit with money but pays his fair share
Don’t bring anyone in your house unless you’re married. Out he goes!
Kick him out sounds like a right sponger!
Kick him out!