Can i have a private post please!! Split from my ex 5 year ago have two kids t…

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Can i have a private post please!!

Split from my ex 5 year ago have two kids together who he hasnt seen in 2.5 years been going through courts for last 3 years.. Court ruled out to go to contact centre but both my kids refused to go near him as there petrified from him due to domestic abuse & making our lifes hell for years smashin my windows kickin doors in every weekend when hes full of drink & drugs… Now courts are saying i cant stop him being in there lifes because he all of a sudden wants contact 2.5 year later.. Doesnt buy them for xmas easter birthdays absoulelty nothing never has done… Courts are makin me out to be the bad parent when i have brung up both my kids from day one all alone he wasnt there when they were born & not on bc walks past kids in street as if there strangers.. Reply please.. My kids aren’t hurt from not seeing him they don’t mention his name or ask for him.. He walks past them in street and my kids don’t recognise him.. I’m just scared if he gets access it’s going to unsettle my kids he has kicked my door in smashed windows when kids have been in beds.. My oldest daughter was scared to sleep in her own room and startin peeing bed and having bad dreams the last time he got contact I don’t want my kids to go through it againIs there anything i can do to stop him fightin in court???
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