Can I have a private post please This might be a long one so bare with me pleas…

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Can I have a private post please

This might be a long one so bare with me please
So me and my partner have been together 4 years we have a 9 month old together and he has a daughter from a previous relationship this is my problem he does nothing for our daughter he goes to earth and beyond for his first born as do his family but my little girl seems to get pushed to the side it’s stupid little things that are bothering me like for instance if his ex rings his mum and asks her to have her daughter yeah that’s fine no problem my daughters stayed with her twice and that was my partners birthday and my own this weekend so we could go out so Saturday dropped my little one off bathed fed and ready for bed at 6.30 by the Sunday morning 11am I had a phone call her stressing out because she had to paint her house and my daughter was there so I asked my partner to pick her up which he did the problem is if she has his other little girl then she wouldn’t dream of messaging or ringing his ex going mad she’d keep her all day which is normally from 10am Saturday until after tea Sunday (not that I wanted her to) she went on holiday and brought her present but because the stuffs crap from over there went to next and bought her an outfit also my little girl got nothing she went to
See her twice when she got back before even making the effort to
Come and see my baby 2 weeks she left it .. my partner does things like upload pictures of his eldest daughter to social media all the time but there’s probably two of my daughter in the whole 9 months she’s been on this earth he will sit on the couch and listen to her cry while I’m cooking tea cleaning and won’t even glance over whereas of his eldest is here and she drops a toy she crys he’s up comforting her I know it’s sounds really petty but I feel like my daughters playing second fiddle all the time I’ve asked him to help me out more just an hour a night so I can have a bath in peace etc I have a 6 year old too with additional needs and things are just getting on top of me he keeps saying I stay at home and that’s my job to do but I’m drained am I just being petty ?
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