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Could i have a pp please. Ok before i start i know people have much worse to wor…

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Could i have a pp please. Ok before i start i know people have much worse to worry about but this is really getting me down … so please advice if can no hate. My partner and i have only been together for 3 years. Were very much in love and extremley happy together, we have alot in common and love each others company. We have two very young boys together both babies. Family set up is wonderful. We were living in a dreadful 1 bed flat with no room and just horrible. However we made it the best we could and we were happy. Weve been so lucky as council have now moved us into a 3 bed house with garden we love it. We r now putting furniture where we want it, emptying boxes and building our home, as it goes. My partner is 11 yrs younger than me hes 26. He has lost both parents to cancer already. I totally feel for him and am there for him when he is upset…such as sunday was fathers day but also happened to be his moms birthday so quite a sad day for him. However he wont let go at all hes got all his parents old furniture and wants it in our new home. Its like a museum for the 1980s in our house. He says its his memories and wont replace with new furniture. His dads cabinet i put some of my family photos in it and he had a go at me saying i took it over. Its hurting me as i want to enjoy and love my home but i cant becauae its full of his mom and dads stuff. Also where does he expect me to put my family photos. And the furniture i have brought and cherished over the years. At mo all my stuff is in the shed. I really dont want to be insensitive but i can see if it carries on it wont be that im insensitive its going to come to blows and ill end up saying something awful ill regret. At the end of the day i feel for him but its not my fault his mom and dad died and why should i sacrifice???! X
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