Could I have a private post please.. Last week I lost twins. My partner blames…
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Could I have a private post please..
Last week I lost twins. My partner blames me saying it was because I work a lot. I didn’t even know I was pregnant nor did he. So maybe it could of been me that caused it not knowing now he keeps saying il have a child with my ex and not with him. I have a 3yr old already. It’s not like I had an abortion though. So I’ve took the shit all week with my head doing over time. He went out on a lads hol the day after it happend. Not once asked me was I ok. Not even a hug. I’m sick and tired of being manlipuated by him. Being told what to do. He’s allowed to go out do what he wants but if I want to go to my friends he doesn’t like anyone of them saying there “slags” 3 of them are married and 1 is single. So it’s just bollocks. I got home yesterday picked my little one up and went to the park with my friend and my little one and now I’m an unfit mother. I’m trying my best daily to keep my head together over the last week what has happend. I feel so hurt and alone. I found the courage to leave him last night and I’m just constantly getting told I’m going with somebody else. Which I’m really not. He’s saying I am because I’ve gone back to work. I’ve simply gone back to work because I can’t afford to be off. Am I in the wrong or not and am I right in leaving him. Please just a little bit of advice ladies. My heads everywhere
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What an erstwhile! Definitely right to leave his add! Firstly it’s not your fault, I believe everything happens for a reason. Sounds like he knows your acheeles heel and he’s using it which may have brought on postnatal depression had you gone full term and calling you unfit mother etc. He also sounds like he’s very insecure and using mental bullying to get his way. Good for you for not standing for it and getting out it makes for a very strong mama and will reflect on your daughter.xx
* what an arsehole*