Could i please get a private post please.
My partner and i are starting to think about having a 2nd child. We already have a 1year old little girl. And we currently live rather comfortably in a 2 bed room house. I work 2days a week 14hr shifts & my little girl stays at her nannys. My partner works full time 48hrs a week.
We are looking in to moving in to a 3 bedroom house for more space be4 we fall pregnant again. This would mean having a mortgage instead of just renting.
But if i had a 2nd child i dont think i would be going back to work. But i would like to no what other stay at home moms get or recive benefit wise and what my contribution to the house hold would be. Or evan just advice on how other family’s support a bigger family such as child care cost as we currently dont pay any (as nanny care is free 😂) but we dont think nanny wouldn’t taken on 2 children.
As we dont what to bring a child in to the world with out being 100% sure we would be financially stable.
Any advice is helpful thank you xx