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Hi could I have a private post please. Just want to see what anyone else has done if they’ve been in a similar situation. I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years and was also cheated on numerous times, I finally had the strength to leave him at the start of this year. I have a 3 year old daughter with my ex and he has not bothered with her properly since we split. I had lost all my confidence from the relationship and didnt trust anyone. I met a guy in October who seemed very nice and then discovered he knows one of my close family members well and works with her. We spoke for 5 weeks before going on a date and then the first date went so well. We met up several times and it was always amazing in his company. He makes me feel so happy again and confident, he cares so much about the children he already has, and I can completely relax and be myself around him. I havent been so comfortable with someone before. Only problem is I want 1 more child in the future and he said he knows he will never want anymore. He asked me to be in a relationship with him and I had to say no as that would mean accepting never having another child. We both understood we couldnt be together. But I have really fallen for him and visa versa. We cant just forget it all. I know it sounds silly as it’s only been a couple of months but I have never met someone with so much in common as me and who I can really be myself around. He is also a genuine guy, always honest with me, works hard and wants to be a good dad. I feel so silly walking away from the opportunity to be with someone like that and dont want to stop seeing him in case it’s a mistake. What would you do? Thanks
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