Hello can I have a ppp, So I’ve got two girls and a baby due soon with my husba…
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Hello can I have a ppp,
So I’ve got two girls and a baby due soon with my husband, we are currently living with his mum, dad, nan and grandad and no matter what I do doesn’t seem to be right. I say no to something to my kids and they go and give it them anyways but husband won’t stand up for me. If I say anything I’m the bad one. Can you tell me if I’m in the wrong by telling my kids something and getting annoyed if they go against me when they are my kids? Thanks.
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Can you reply back to my post please. We are in process off bidding for a house but can only do so much with the council. It’s my pet hate too, my kids were eating their dinner and because father in law had finished he had biscuits, well my kids hadn’t finished and he still give them biscuits, I took it off them and then he done it again. He clearly didn’t listen to me and every time I tell them they don’t seem to care. Like I’ve only give birth to my child for them to bring them up. X
Can you please reply to my post.
I’ve tried to sit them down and tell them about how they make me feel when they do this and they don’t seem to listen. They do it even more because I’ve told them about it. Husband won’t say anything though and it’s asif I’m the one to tell them when it’s his family. I feel like I can’t do anything and if I do I get judged. They told me with my third I can’t do anything with the baby because I’ve got two kids already. So they want me to leave my third child so they can try and bring it up. Xx
You are living with 2 other generations …Unfortunately your wants are low on the totem pole until you have your own place ….expecting your husband to referee with his parents and grandparents against you is a bit too much….think about it and how you would feel in his shoes if this was your parents and grandparents ….would you want to to argue with them daily ect ….you are sharing their home and for now you need to find a way to compromise and not put your partner in the middle
I had all that with my ex mil my ex just sat there like a complete dick n wouldn’t say owt to her in end i told her to f**k off n if she wanted to see kids she had to accept what i said went, she would feed em sweets before lunch n give em yogurts & stuff that was a week or so out of date.x
I had that …. when I told my kids no & if my partners family member gave it to them I took it away & tell them I said no make sure he’s family could see & also told them that I told my kids no … good luck
Why would you want to live with people like that, if you don’t like it then move. I certainly wouldn’t live with people like that telling me and over ruling decisions as a mother
Total pet hate we tell are kids for a reason we don’t want out control kids that cause may hem on streets when older we want to have kids who have respect agree with u
They are your kids and the rest of the family should respect your decisions even if you live in their house
Your not in the wrong. They are teaching your children it’s ok to disrespect you and break the rules. If be fuming x