Hello, Please may i ask for a private post? Its regarding my ex partner. So, m…
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Hello,
Please may i ask for a private post? Its regarding my ex partner.
So, my ex and i split in April 2016 after a few weeks of it being difficult we actually became good friends for the sake of the children. Last year we still done everything together for example Halloween, birthdays, Christmas ect…
I found out boxing day, after him being in such a rush Christmas Day to leave and get the children to bed early that he had a girlfriend. I was upset cause we always said we would be honest with each other and cause i wouldnt be happy for some new person turning up in my childrens lives and vice verse…
In April this year he went against my wishes and took my children to meet her ( they had been together 5 months). I said give it a while longer but he did it any way.
We obviously didnt get on from this point forward but it was more the fact of Christmas he made me feel like i had done something wrong and that he wanted the children in bed very early. When really he wanted to get away to see his girlfriend.
Fast forward to now. In just short of 11 months they are married and have a daughter together and i am the wicked witch.
He cheated on my multiple times, lied to me throughout our whole relationship and made me into a state. – But yet he is making my life living hell.
He calls the police making completely false allegations, he is extremely nasty to me, he (still) makes me feel like a piece of rubbish on the floor that he thinks its funny to stamp on.
Yes, i hate him. I hate him for all that he has done and is doing. He thinks he is untouchable. He makes people feel sorry for him because he has a baby face and people think awwww.
One thing that gets to me is that he always said he would contribute financially. He earns £35k per year but pays pennies in maintenance. My children go to various clubs, have expensive uniform ect…. and he will not help at all. He doesn’t see why he should have to.
I work my butt off. I work full time and do not get 5 minutes to myself. I have no friends therefore never socialise. I have no money because of debts he left me with.
Im trying to give my children the best but i just cant and you know what?? He laughs cause he thinks its funny.
How dare he 😞
I said what we were doing for my sons birthday and that no matter what has happened in the last couple of months i can put that aside for my children and that they are more than welcome to come.. HIs reaction:
“I’ve told ***** i will celebrate his birthday with him on our day together. I just want a phone call to him. Im not going anyway with you after all that’s happened.
Im happy with the pick ups now leave us alone”
Lets bear in mind i have nothing to do with him now. I don’t speak to him and i don’t see him. I email him occasionally when i have to ( he cant have my number because he accuses me of stuff)
He has his perfect little humble abode and we can just swivel.
Im fed up of this.
Its really hard him promising things therefore children are signed up for clubs, have high expectations for birthday parties.
He makes me out to be the most vile, biggest bitch going when actually im just a quiet person who works so hard to provide and i just get shit thrown my way all the time.
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