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Hey can I have a pp please?? So I’m wanting to go to an event on Saturday it’s…

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Hey can I have a pp please??

So I’m wanting to go to an event on Saturday it’s like a big rave event. A few of my old friends I’ve not seen in years asked me to go and I’ve been buzzing all day, only thing I was thinking was that I needed to clear it up with the boyfriend. Tickets are £50 but I’ve found second hand one for £35. So we were talking about it and he said oh why don’t you get yourself a ticket and go so then I said I was thinking of asking him then he starts getting all defensive saying he was joking etc. Basically we have sky bill he has a phone bill and he’s paying people off I.e his mum as he has had lends to help us get by with family things etc he also spends £120 weekly on his weed addiction. He has always paid the bills and he’s always said I don’t need to even though I offer to help out as best I can even though I don’t get as much money as him. I’ve told him I’d give him money but it won’t even get out towards the bills he will use it for fags/lunch money at work. We sometimes scrimp and scrape for a day or two when we’re totally skint but I always make sure we have things for dinner, I’m normally the one who gets the shopping etc. If he’s basically saying I shouldn’t go to my event I’m being selfish etc. I asked him a few months ago if he would want to go to the creamfields festival and he was like no it’s for kids etc he’s 29 I’m 22. Should I go on Saturday or not? I can afford it and afford to get food electric etc too. He keeps saying I’m not an adult I don’t think about the things we need bla bla, he normally says go out etc I never do because whenever I go on a night out some of my mates get with guys and basically I get accused of stuff so I feel like I can’t go out without getting accused of stuff when I would never dream of cheating on him. Don’t know what to do. He also said he would think differently of me if I went 😂 x
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