Hi can i have a ppp? Just wanna know if im over reacting. Im pregnant, due next …
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Hi can i have a ppp? Just wanna know if im over reacting. Im pregnant, due next summer and my bf has just took a job interview for a job that requires him to go to america once a year for a week. Is it just me or is not something he should have discussed with me first since we will have a child together? Hes just telling me like he hasnt considered it. This is my 2nd child, his first and i feel he doesnt have any idea that you cant just fuck off to america for a week without talking to your other half about it. Its only for a call centre job. No bashing please, just tell me if im over reacting lol xx
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Deiniftely over reacting – especially if he is trying to better himself for the sake of his family. Its one week out of 52 and perhaps as a supporting partner he thought it wouldn’t make a difference to you as a week in the scheme of things is insignificant. Try and be more supportive, even if the thought of him being away and leaving you with the kids is hard work. Try and arrange different activities during the week / weekends he is away to occupy yourself and the children. The time will fly by xx
My husband is only home at weekends ( if he comes home at all ) and will be away for 4 months next year. We will have a 6 month old baby and 3 older children when he leaves. I don’t like it But it pays the bills and gives us the life we enjoy.
I think you’ll be fine with 1 week a year 😂.
It’s only one week so yea I think so, he probes thought well I’m earning for my family so what does it matter, some mums and dads are away months at a time to provide, life still has to go on I’m afraid ❤️
Maybe he should of consulted you about it but it’s a week outta whole year and he’s working it will benefit you and kids it’s money at end of day .. unless your meaning he’s gonna be away the week your due? 2bh baby #5 I had my mum as birth partner and Oh was straight back at work day after if he’s not there youl just have to get on with it,if is part of his job not much you can do x
I wouldn’t say over reacting . Your hormones are all over the place and if that’s how you feel then fine. He definitely should have spoke to you about it, but 1 week is only 1 week and an opportunity for him ( I am the first to fume on my OH when he goes away because he gets a break from the baby and i don’t ) x
Me and my husband have 4 children together.. he works away mon to fri every week.. I’d love for it to be one week a year lol.. anyway.. it’s fine because he provides and it keeps a roof over our heads. He should have spoken to you, but, one week a year is nothing xx
It’s only a week once a year it’s not like it’s a week once a month 😕 Least He has a job An is trying to work hard for his family I think maybe your just a little sensitive atm I wouldn’t be angry about this tbh
Keeps a roof over your head and food in your belly so you can stay at home with the kids doesn’t it 🤷🏻♂️
Sounds a really good opportunity! Yes he shoulda mentioned it but hey would u not take it up if shoe was on other foot?! Its only a week id jump at the chance and who says u wont get the opportunity to go with him?x
I think your over reacting slightly it’s only a week it will fly by ! It’s a job at the end of the day you can’t really grudge him for getting a job that requires 1 week out of 52 to travel x
It’s only a week , I would understand if he had to go away the week you’re due or something but at the end of the day I think he’s just trying to support his family especially with a little one on the way X
I feel like you may be Just a little. It’s only for a week for a job but that’s it. It’s not like he’s not coming back and he’s told you. Though yeah he probably should have mentioned it to you out of respect.
It’s only a week, my oh works away from home every week and has done for nearly a year now & we have a 2yo. All to support us! It’s break for you lol think of it that way x
If u and ur family benefit from the job salary etc then yes ur over reacting!! A week is nothing if ur that bothered why not save and go out there the same week and make a holiday!! X
He should have spoken to you but 1 week a year is nothing, he’s doing it to make money for his family xx
Erm I’d probably be pissed off he didn’t speak to me about it but I’m mardy and pathetic most of the time 😂
He probably didnt tell you because of how you react,its once a year for a week and he trying to better himself
One week out of a whole year,, yep deff over reacting
He should have talked to you but it’s only a week. Chill ya boots! 😉
He hasn’t took the job just an interview not like he’s moving to America it’s 1 week a year c
Over reacting. My husband has to travel lots for work. It’s just the way it is!
Huge overreaction! It’s one week a year! Would u not rather that than him not working at all?
Your over reacting it’s 1 week a year 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Over reacting…..
A week free from your partner