Hi, can I have a private post? I have 2 children at home (5 and 6) and have just…

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Hi, can I have a private post? I have 2 children at home (5 and 6) and have just moved into a flat that’s ideal for us, started a job I enjoy and met my lovely new partner all in the last 4 months. Things have moved along quickly, and we live together. After years of trying to sort my life out things are good.

Yesterday I found out I’m pregnant and I have no idea what to do. I was completely done with the baby thing, said I wasn’t having any more. Now it’s happened I’m very conflicted! my partner will support me regardless of my choice. However from previous discussions I think he’d rather have the baby. As for myself I’m torn. Keep reminding myself to be practical about it.

My head is spinning, don’t know what to think. We’re both working and things are stable, I know the sensible thing is to have a termination but as soon as I make my mind up one way or the other half an hour later I’m thinking the opposite!

I’m trying to keep in mind doing the best for the children I already have, but I’m so mixed up.

I’d be able to keep working which is an improvement on my previous relationship where I felt trapped in the home. My previous experiences weren’t very positive with relationships and this one is different, feels safe and settled, me and my kids love him. And I’m trying to weigh up the chaos a baby would bring against the wish to keep it… No bashing please I know getting pregnant was stupid!
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