Hi, can I have a private post please? It’s a long one so apologies now! How do p…

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Hi, can I have a private post please? It’s a long one so apologies now!
How do people get over violent relationships? I was with my ex (sons dad) for just under 5 years, shortly after we split he attacked me and my son, it was very traumatic and I was genuinely scared for our lives, I know I haven’t gotten over it, we went to court and I got a non molestation order and he got one hour weekly supervised contact in a contact centre with my son. He walked away after a few months and doesn’t bother us at all now. Shortly after (a few weeks) my relationship broke down with my sons dad I got into a new relationship, I was in a bad place and just needed a distraction. Well it turned out this man had issues with alcohol, due to being in a bad place I couldn’t bring myself to ask him to leave, the relationship got worse, I fell pregnant but chose to have an abortion, he kicked off big time about this and ended up being arrested, I stupidly gave him another chance, it got 10x, in the end he ended up going to prison for harassment, drunk and disorderly and threats to kill.. he completely controlled me, told me he’d report me to social services saying I was a bad time, threatened to contact my sons dad and say that I was harming my son, all very untrue! He was very forceful when it came to sex, many times I told him I didn’t want to have sex and he’d keep on and make me feel so bad, I ended up just letting him do what he wanted, often just laying there crying. I’ve never been so low, my heads just all over the place 😞
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