Hi can I have a private post please? Me and my partner have been together for 3 …

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Hi can I have a private post please? Me and my partner have been together for 3 and a half years. He suffers from depression however in December 2016 we decided we would try for a baby as he was now in a much better place due a medication change. Unfortunately it seems these new meds kill all libido and cause erectile dysfunction! I understand these tablets help however we are now in a completely non-physical relationship and haven’t had sex for 7 months, before all of this we were sleeping together around 1-2 times a week. I know these tablets help him but this is also killing our relationship, he has tried to change the combination of the meds to see what effect it has but so far we have got nowhere. Am I selfish for wanting him to completely change the tablets as I don’t know how much longer I can cope? I feel so rubbish about myself and feel we are drifting apart as there is no intimacy. He has a little boy from a previous relationship and our plan was to have one of our own to complete the family. I almost feel desperate to have our own child, i’m so ready and it was the plan until the whole medication thing put all plans on hold. Can I have honest opinions on what I should do? I love him so very much but for my own mental health I don’t know how long I can carry on like this, I feel so down about myself. Thanks
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