Hi could I get a private post please? My partner and I have been together for …
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Hi could I get a private post please?
My partner and I have been together for years and I am pregnant with our second child together, my partner has 3 older children from a previous relationship (ages between 8 and 13)
Anyway…my step children’s mother will not stop running me and my partner down to the children behind our backs, we never speak poorly of her in front of the children but she does with us every chance she gets…we bought the kids a pool for Christmas and she told them the pool we got is crap, everything we buy them is crap according to her. She has told the children that I apparently think I’m a vampire?!
She has also told them that if they come to our house we won’t let them talk or go places or have fun which is absolutely ridiculous…but what has made me the most mad is that she has told her kids that my daughter should never have been born… All the rage in me is telling me to message her and give her a piece of my mind but the grown up in me is telling me to drop it and let her say what she wants so that she doesn’t stop my partner from seeing his kids..we have tried messaging her politely and telling her that we don’t appreciate the stuff she says but she just gets all defensive and starts being horrible.
I’ve been feeling like my partner and I have to break up just to stop all the horrible things she says about us and our child…it breaks my heart hearing her kids tell us all the stories she’s told them, and what worries me is that my partners eldest daughter is starting to resent her for the things she says about her dad and her little sister that she made a “joke” the other day to my other step daughter that “mums house should burn down”
I don’t know what to do.
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You splitting will only give her what she wants,from the sound of it she’s either butt hurt he hasn’t taken her back,jealous you’ve had a baby and obviously she’s a very lonely woman trying to spite her children against their father! sounds like a right contrived bitch! As hard as it would be and is your doing the right thing by not reacting,the high road will always be preferred anyway!
Ignore her, she’s desperate for a reaction and eventually will shut up when she finally realises she won’t get one and gives up – from experience x
Wow what a childish nasty cow. As you say the eldest is starting to see her mum for what she is and in turn the others will and so will the people around her. If you split that is giving her everything she wants and why should you? You are definately doing the right thing by ignoring her.
Ignore her , don’t give her the reaction she wants .. if you and your partner are strong you will both be fine , as my son went through the same and he’s got a 3 year old daughter and been with his partner for 5 years and they stay strong ..dont let her win xx
Don’t do it. Ignore her. Soon get bored. 👌